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The Night I Realized Why I Created Today Alone
March 30, 2025
Written by Sharilee Benjamin, LCSW, LICSW, CNP
What began as a mission to support others became something deeper. On March 29, 2025, I reflected on personal and family loss — and realized that Today Alone LLC is not just about helping individuals feel seen, but about breaking generational patterns of isolation and silence.
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When the Mission Became Clear
When I first started Today Alone LLC, I was driven by a deep desire to create space for people who feel isolated, overlooked, or unsupported. That desire didn’t come out of nowhere — it was shaped by my own experiences and by the people I’ve lost along the way.
My journey into social work, mental health advocacy, and community building began years ago, after losing a friend to suicide. That loss changed me. It opened my eyes to how many people carry heavy burdens silently, feeling unseen and disconnected from others. It made me want to make sure fewer people ever felt that way.
But on the night of March 29, 2025, the mission behind Today Alone took on new meaning.
That evening, I spent time reflecting on a more recent loss within my own family — a loss that stirred up emotions and reminded me how grief, silence, and emotional weight can pass down quietly over time. It made me think not only about my own experiences but about the patterns of isolation and survival that can stretch across generations.
It became clear to me that the work I do now isn’t just about supporting individuals in the present — it’s about helping to break cycles that have existed long before us.
It’s about making sure no one has to carry their struggles alone.
It’s about honoring the people who came before, without carrying their pain forward.
Today Alone LLC exists to remind people — in every generation — that there is connection, hope, and healing available. Even on the days when you feel alone. Especially on those days.
If you’re reading this, I want you to know:
You are not alone.
Not today. Not ever.
Disclaimer: The information provided on this website and throughout this blog is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical health, mental health, or legal advice. The content is designed to support, not replace, the relationship that exists between a patient/site visitor and his/her healthcare provider. If you believe you may need professional help, it is important to seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider. Do not disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. In case of a mental health crisis don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 and in case of a medical or mental health emergency, please 911, or reach out to your local emergency hotline immediately for assistance. Remember, immediate professional assistance is crucial in such situations and can provide the necessary support and guidance. Your use of this site indicates your agreement to be bound by our Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy.
Understanding Out-of-Network Benefits and Superbills: A Guide for Mental Health Clients
January 7, 2025
Written by Sharilee Benjamin, LCSW, CNP
Navigating the world of mental health care can feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to understanding insurance benefits and payments. One common question clients ask is: “What are out-of-network benefits, and how can they help me afford therapy?” If you’re exploring mental health services and your preferred provider is not in your insurance network, out-of-network benefits and superbills can be valuable tools. This blog will guide you through the essentials of out-of-network benefits and how to utilize superbills to get reimbursed for mental health services.
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What Are Out-of-Network Benefits?
Out-of-network benefits are part of many insurance plans that allow you to receive partial reimbursement for services from providers who are not directly contracted with your insurance company. This can open the door to working with the therapist or mental health professional that best meets your needs, even if they are not within your insurance network.
With these benefits, clients typically pay for services upfront and later submit documentation to their insurance for reimbursement. This process allows greater flexibility and choice in selecting a mental health provider without being limited to those in-network.
What Is a Superbill?
A superbill is a detailed invoice that your therapist or mental health provider gives you after a session. It includes all the necessary information your insurance company needs to process an out-of-network claim, such as:
Provider’s name, address, and credentials
Diagnosis and treatment codes (CPT codes)
Session dates and duration
The amount you paid
Essentially, a superbill acts as a receipt and summary of your mental health services, making it easier for your insurance to evaluate and (potentially) reimburse you for out-of-network care.
How to Use Out-of-Network Benefits
Check Your Insurance Policy – Call your insurance company or log into your account to review your out-of-network benefits. Ask the following questions:
Do I have out-of-network mental health benefits?
What percentage of the service is reimbursed?
Is there a deductible I must meet first?
Are there limits on the number of sessions covered per year?
Pay for Services Upfront – Since out-of-network providers do not bill your insurance directly, you will need to pay the full fee for each session at the time of service.
Request a Superbill – After your session, ask your therapist for a superbill. Ensure it contains all necessary information.
Submit the Superbill to Your Insurance – Follow your insurance company’s process for submitting out-of-network claims. This can often be done through their website or by mailing the form.
Receive Reimbursement – Once processed, your insurance company will reimburse you based on your plan's out-of-network rate.
Why Consider Out-of-Network Providers?
Working with an out-of-network provider gives you access to specialists who may not be available within your insurance network. This can be crucial when searching for mental health professionals with specific expertise or therapeutic approaches that align with your personal goals and needs.
Additionally, out-of-network providers often have greater flexibility in the type of care they provide since they are not bound by certain insurance restrictions. This can lead to a more personalized and holistic therapeutic experience.
Tips for Maximizing Reimbursement
Know Your Codes – Familiarize yourself with commonly used CPT codes and diagnoses related to your care.
Track Your Expenses – Keep detailed records of all payments, session dates, and superbills.
Follow Up – If a claim is denied, don’t hesitate to contact your insurance for clarification or to appeal the decision.
Consult with Your Provider – Some therapists offer guidance on submitting superbills and maximizing your insurance benefits.
Final Thoughts
Out-of-network benefits and superbills empower clients to access quality mental health care that might otherwise be out of reach. By understanding how to leverage these tools, you can prioritize your mental well-being without compromising on the provider best suited to support you.
At Today Alone LLC, we are committed to supporting your journey to emotional and mental health. If you have questions about our superbill process or out-of-network options, feel free to reach out. Your mental health is worth the investment.
Sources:
Child Mind Institute - Understanding Out-of-Network Benefits
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) - Understanding Health Insurance
American Psychological Association (APA) - Does Your Insurance Cover Mental Health Services
HealthCare.gov - Out-of-Network Costs and Coverage
Disclaimer: The information provided on this website and throughout this blog is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical health, mental health, or legal advice. The content is designed to support, not replace, the relationship that exists between a patient/site visitor and his/her healthcare provider. If you believe you may need professional help, it is important to seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider. Do not disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. In case of a mental health crisis don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 and in case of a medical or mental health emergency, please 911, or reach out to your local emergency hotline immediately for assistance. Remember, immediate professional assistance is crucial in such situations and can provide the necessary support and guidance. Your use of this site indicates your agreement to be bound by our Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy.
10 Daily Practices to Cultivate Purpose in Everyday Life
December 31, 2024
Written by Sharilee Benjamin, LCSW, CNP
When life feels overwhelming, it’s easy to slip into autopilot — handling responsibilities without pausing to reflect on the why. But living with intention doesn’t require a full reset or grand gestures. Often, it’s about small, consistent practices that create a sense of purpose, connection, and balance.
If you’re carrying a lot — whether in your career, family, or personal growth — these 10 simple practices can help ground you, ease stress, and bring meaning into daily life.
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1. Start with Purpose (Morning Intention)
Before diving into your day, take a moment to ask:
“What’s one thing I want to bring to today?”
It could be patience, focus, or simply staying present. Setting an intention creates clarity and keeps you anchored when things get chaotic.
According to Simon Sinek’s work in Start With Why, reconnecting with personal purpose, even in small daily actions, drives fulfillment and reduces burnout. Grounding your day in intention aligns your actions with deeper values.
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Stay centered during busy days.
Family: Show up with love and patience.
Health: Prioritize small actions that feel good.
2. Gratitude First
Begin each day by reflecting on one thing that went well – even if it feels small. Gratitude pulls you out of survival mode and reminds you that progress, however slow, is happening.
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Recognize accomplishments or moments of ease.
Personal: Acknowledge growth or simple joys.
Family: Appreciate a peaceful moment or connection.
3. Set One Small Goal
Skip the overwhelming to-do list. Choose one small, clear goal to focus on for the day. Small wins build momentum and ease the pressure to do it all.
James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, emphasizes that setting small, manageable goals is key to long-term progress. He explains that even minor victories compound over time, reducing overwhelm and reinforcing positive behavior.
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Complete one task or make progress on a project.
Health: Go for a walk or drink more water.
Family: Plan quality time, even if brief.
4. Delegate One Thing
Carrying too much? Let someone else step in. Delegating isn’t about losing control — it’s about making space for yourself. Ask:
“What can I pass on today?”
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Hand off a small task or ask for support.
Home: Involve family members in daily routines.
Health: Allow someone to help or hold you accountable.
5. Lift Others Up
A simple “thank you” or acknowledgment can shift your whole perspective. Recognize the people around you — whether at work or home.
Lifting others lifts you, too.
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Highlight a colleague’s effort.
Family: Acknowledge loved ones’ contributions.
Personal: Reflect on how far you’ve come.
6. Listen Fully
Slow down. Practice listening without rushing to respond. It’s one of the easiest ways to stay present, reduce conflict, and build connection.
According to the APA, practicing mindfulness — including fully listening in conversations — enhances emotional awareness and fosters healthier relationships (Mindfulness | APA).
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Pay attention in conversations or meetings.
Family: Let loved ones feel heard.
Mental Health: Listen to your own needs and inner voice.
7. Connect Without an Agenda
Reach out to someone without needing anything in return. A simple text or call can bring comfort and remind you that connection is about more than productivity.
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Check in with a colleague or friend.
Family: Share a lighthearted moment with someone.
Spiritual: Connect with yourself or reflect quietly.
8. Challenge Fear-Based Thoughts
Stress often triggers fear — “What if I fail?” or “Am I doing enough?” When this happens, pause and ask:
“Is this thought true, or is it fear talking?”
Reframing shifts your focus back to reality.
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Ease performance anxiety or doubt.
Health: Quiet the inner critic during setbacks.
Family: Soften harsh self-judgment.
9. Face One Fear (Take the Step Anyway)
Growth happens when you step into discomfort. Each day, take one small action toward something you’ve been avoiding — even if it feels insignificant.
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Have that overdue conversation.
Health: Sign up for the class or appointment.
Personal: Take one step toward healing or growth.
10. Reflect and Let Go (Evening Practice)
At the end of the day, let go of what didn’t get done. Reflect on one thing you did accomplish, and allow unfinished tasks to wait until tomorrow.
Mayo Clinic emphasizes that reflective practices at the end of the day help manage lingering stress, improve sleep quality, and promote emotional balance.
Read more on Mayo Clinic.
🌱 Applies to:
Work: Close the laptop and trust that you’ve done enough.
Family: Let go of perfection and appreciate the effort.
Mind: End the day with kindness toward yourself.
Why This Matters
Purpose doesn’t have to come from big, life-changing decisions. It often grows in the smallest moments — in how you start your morning, how you treat yourself, and how you navigate the responsibilities you carry.
By practicing even a few of these habits daily, you cultivate resilience, connection, and a sense of control, no matter how hectic life becomes.
Living with purpose is less about what you do — and more about how you choose to show up.
At Today Alone LLC, we’re here to support you every step of the way. Contact us today to learn more about how we can help you navigate stress, find balance, and reconnect with purpose in your daily life.
Sources:
Cleveland Clinic. (2023). Tips for building a strong family bond. Cleveland Clinic. Retrieved from https://health.clevelandclinic.org/tips-for-building-a-strong-family-bond/
Clear, J. (2018). Atomic habits: An easy & proven way to build good habits & break bad ones. New York: Avery.
Harvard Health Publishing. (2023). Mindfulness meditation: A pathway to better mental health. Harvard Medical School. Retrieved from https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/mindfulness-meditation
Johns Hopkins Medicine. (2022). The science of gratitude. Johns Hopkins Medicine. Retrieved from https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/the-science-of-gratitude
Mayo Clinic. (2023). Mindfulness meditation: A path to reducing stress. Mayo Clinic. Retrieved from https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/meditation/in-depth/mindfulness-meditation/art-20046356
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Sinek, S. (2009). Start with why: How great leaders inspire everyone to take action. New York: Portfolio.
Disclaimer: The information provided on this website and throughout this blog is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical health, mental health, or legal advice. The content is designed to support, not replace, the relationship that exists between a patient/site visitor and his/her healthcare provider. If you believe you may need professional help, it is important to seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider. Do not disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. In case of a mental health crisis don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 and in case of a medical or mental health emergency, please 911, or reach out to your local emergency hotline immediately for assistance. Remember, immediate professional assistance is crucial in such situations and can provide the necessary support and guidance. Your use of this site indicates your agreement to be bound by our Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy.
The Healing Power of Walk and Talk Therapy: A Path to Emotional Well-Being
December 18, 2024
Written by Sharilee Benjamin, LCSW, CNP
Walk and Talk Therapy is gaining recognition as a transformative approach to mental health care. Combining traditional talk therapy with the therapeutic benefits of movement and nature, this innovative practice offers clients a fresh perspective on emotional well-being. Drawing on decades of psychological research and real-world applications, Walk and Talk Therapy may be the step forward many people need.
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What Is Walk and Talk Therapy?
Walk and Talk Therapy takes traditional therapy outside the office, where clients and therapists engage in meaningful, side-by-side conversations while walking in natural settings. These sessions are designed to create a relaxed, collaborative environment that fosters openness, creativity, and clarity.
What the Research Says
Promotes Emotional Release: Studies, such as those by Revell and McLeod (2015), suggest that the act of walking can help clients overcome emotional "stuckness," allowing for deeper psychological processing.
Enhances Self-Awareness: Prince‐Llewellyn and McCarthy (2024) found that walking outdoors facilitated a greater sense of freedom, helping clients gain broader perspectives and heightened self-acceptance.
Boosts Mood and Well-Being: Their research demonstrated reductions in psychological distress and increases in well-being for participants, with many reporting the natural setting and movement as key factors in their progress.
Encourages Collaboration: Walking side-by-side, as noted by Bennett-Levy (2019), creates a non-confrontational dynamic that enhances the therapeutic relationship, allowing clients to feel more at ease.
Why Walk and Talk Therapy Works
Walking in natural surroundings offers several psychological and physiological benefits that complement therapy:
Natural Calm: Being in green spaces reduces stress and promotes mental clarity.
Enhanced Creativity: Movement stimulates the brain, often helping clients approach challenges from new angles.
Mind-Body Connection: Walking at a leisurely pace aligns physical activity with emotional and mental processing.
Accessibility: For clients who feel confined or anxious in traditional therapy settings, the openness of nature provides a refreshing alternative.
Challenges and Considerations
While Walk and Talk Therapy offers unique benefits, it also presents specific challenges:
Privacy: Conducting sessions in public spaces requires careful selection of locations to maintain confidentiality.
Weather: Sessions may need to be rescheduled due to inclement weather or unsafe conditions.
Safety: Clients must be physically cleared by their primary care provider for light walking and outdoor activity.
Walk and Talk Therapy at Today Alone LLC
At Today Alone LLC, we’ve embraced Walk and Talk Therapy as part of our commitment to offering innovative and client-centered care. Our therapists integrate this approach into their practice, tailoring each session to the unique needs of our clients. Whether you’re seeking individual therapy or a group setting, our goal is to help you find clarity, confidence, and connection—one step at a time.
Take the First Step
Walk and Talk Therapy is a collaborative and empowering experience that can help you gain new perspectives, reduce distress, and improve overall well-being. Before starting, we encourage you to consult with your primary care provider to ensure that light walking and outdoor therapy are appropriate for your health needs.
At Today Alone LLC, we’re here to support you every step of the way. Contact us today to learn more about Walk and Talk Therapy and schedule your first session. Together, we’ll help you take meaningful strides toward a better tomorrow.
Sources:
Bennett-Levy, J. (2019). Why therapists should walk the talk: The theoretical and empirical case for personal practice in therapist training and professional development. Journal of Behavior Therapy and Experimental Psychiatry, 62, 133-145.
Holistic Consultation LLC. The Benefits of Walk and Talk Therapy. https://holisticconsultationllc.com
Prince‐Llewellyn, H., & McCarthy, P. (2024). Walking and talking for well‐being: Exploring the effectiveness of walk and talk therapy. Counselling and Psychotherapy Research.
Revell, S. (2017). Walk and talk therapy: Potential client perceptions. Contemporary Research Topics, 24.
Revell, S., & McLeod, J. (2015). Experiences of therapists who integrate walk and talk into their professional practice. Counselling and Psychotherapy Research, 15(4), 287-295. https://doi.org/10.1002/capr.12042
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WebMD. Walk and Talk Therapy: Exploring a New Frontier in Mental Health. https://www.webmd.com
Disclaimer: The information provided on this website and throughout this blog is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical health, mental health, or legal advice. The content is designed to support, not replace, the relationship that exists between a patient/site visitor and his/her healthcare provider. If you believe you may need professional help, it is important to seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider. Do not disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. In case of a mental health crisis don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 and in case of a medical or mental health emergency, please 911, or reach out to your local emergency hotline immediately for assistance. Remember, immediate professional assistance is crucial in such situations and can provide the necessary support and guidance. Your use of this site indicates your agreement to be bound by our Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy.
Discover the Healing Power of Play Therapy
December 3, 2024
Written by Sharilee Benjamin, LCSW, CNP
Imagine a therapy where words aren’t the only way to heal—where creativity, play, and connection unlock the doors to understanding and growth. Whether you’re three or thirty-three, Play Therapy offers a unique and transformative path to process emotions, overcome challenges, and rediscover joy. Let’s explore how this powerful approach can change lives, starting with yours.
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Discover the Healing Power of Play Therapy
Have you ever wondered if Play Therapy might be the right fit for you or your loved ones? Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing the profound impact this approach can have on individuals of all ages. Whether it’s a young child exploring big emotions, a teenager navigating relationships, or an adult revisiting the pain of their past, Play Therapy offers a unique and transformative way to heal.
What is Play Therapy?
Play Therapy is more than just play. It’s a therapeutic approach that uses creative and engaging activities to help individuals express their emotions, process experiences, and build coping skills. For children, who often lack the words to articulate their feelings, play becomes their natural language. Through activities like drawing, building with blocks, sand tray work, and so much more, Play Therapy creates a safe environment for exploration and growth.
Who Can Benefit from Play Therapy?
Play Therapy is often introduced to children as young as three years old. It’s highly effective for addressing challenges like anxiety, grief, behavioral issues, or trauma. But its benefits aren’t limited to children. Adolescents and adults can also find healing through Play Therapy, especially those who experienced childhood trauma. Play allows us to process the pain we didn’t have words for at the time, making it an invaluable tool for revisiting and resolving old wounds.
What’s remarkable is its versatility. Play Therapy transcends barriers of culture, language, and developmental stage, making it accessible and impactful for individuals from all walks of life.
How Does Play Therapy Work?
Play Therapy adapts to the individual. Some approaches are structured, with the therapist guiding specific activities, while others are non-directive, allowing the individual to take the lead. Sessions often include activities like:
Drawing and painting
Building with blocks or figurines
Role-playing
Sand tray therapy
Creative storytelling
Each activity is carefully chosen to meet the individual’s unique needs. While it may look like “just play,” these moments provide profound opportunities for self-expression, healing, and growth.
The Transformative Benefits of Play Therapy
The benefits of Play Therapy are far-reaching. It helps individuals:
Express emotions they may not be able to articulate
Process trauma in a safe and supportive environment
Build resilience and confidence
Strengthen relationships and communication skills
Navigate difficult life transitions
As a therapist, I’ve seen these benefits firsthand. I’ve watched children gain emotional regulation and strengthen family connections. I’ve seen teens discover self-confidence and healthier ways to connect with others. And I’ve worked with adults who, through Play Therapy techniques, finally found healing for pain they carried since childhood.
My Personal Experience In my practice, Play Therapy has been a game-changer. I’ve worked with clients from diverse backgrounds and life stages, and time and time again, I’ve seen how this approach meets them exactly where they are.
Is Play Therapy Right for You?
Whether you’re addressing current challenges or exploring past experiences, Play Therapy offers a safe, nurturing space for healing and growth. It’s not just for children—it’s for anyone who can benefit from reconnecting with the parts of themselves that thrive through play.
If you’re curious about how Play Therapy could help you or someone you care about, I encourage you to explore it further. Sometimes, the best way to move forward is to reconnect with the healing power of play. It might just be the key to unlocking a brighter, more balanced future.
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Disclaimer: The information provided on this website and throughout this blog is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical health, mental health, or legal advice. The content is designed to support, not replace, the relationship that exists between a patient/site visitor and his/her healthcare provider. If you believe you may need professional help, it is important to seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider. Do not disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. In case of a mental health crisis don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 and in case of a medical or mental health emergency, please 911, or reach out to your local emergency hotline immediately for assistance. Remember, immediate professional assistance is crucial in such situations and can provide the necessary support and guidance. Your use of this site indicates your agreement to be bound by our Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy.
Breaking the Superwoman Myth: Strategies for Managing High-Stress Careers and Personal Life
April 11, 2024
Written by Sharilee Benjamin, LMSW, CTP, CNP
In the bustling world of modern-day career women, the expectation to embody the "superwoman" archetype is ever-present. This myth suggests that women must seamlessly juggle professional success with a fulfilling personal life, all while maintaining a flawless facade of composure and control. However, this ideal is not only unrealistic but also detrimental to women's mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
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To dismantle this myth is to reclaim your power. Women can benefit from various strategies that focus on self-care, boundary-setting, time management, and seeking support from others. With a touch of humor and practicality, let's dive into these strategies in more detail, empowering you to take control of your life.
Support groups and therapy can provide a valuable outlet for women to explore their feelings of stress, burnout, and inadequacy in a safe and supportive environment. These groups offer a platform for sharing experiences and coping mechanisms, fostering a sense of solidarity and understanding among participants.
Spiritual health is another key component of managing high-stress careers and personal lives. Engaging in meditation, prayer, or simply connecting with nature can help women cultivate a sense of inner peace and purpose. These practices can serve as a source of strength and resilience in the face of life's challenges.
Healthy relationships are essential for breaking the superwoman myth. Building and maintaining strong connections with friends, family, and partners can provide emotional support and a sense of belonging. These relationships remind women that their accomplishments or multitasking ability does not define their worth.
Meaningful connections with others can also help combat feelings of isolation and loneliness that often accompany the superwoman myth. By investing time and energy into nurturing relationships and forming new friendships, women can cultivate a sense of community and support that enriches their lives.
The secret to breaking the superwoman myth lies in embracing an authentic and compassionate approach to self-care. This involves prioritizing activities that nourish the mind, body, and soul, such as regular exercise, healthy eating, and sufficient sleep. It also entails setting boundaries and learning to say no to commitments that do not align with one's values and well-being.
In conclusion, breaking the superwoman myth requires a holistic approach that addresses all aspects of women's well-being. By participating in support groups and therapy, nurturing spiritual health, cultivating healthy relationships, seeking meaningful connections, and prioritizing authentic and compassionate self-care, women can free themselves from unrealistic expectations and live more balanced and fulfilling lives. So go ahead and embrace your superpowers, but remember, even superheroes need a break now and then!
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Disclaimer: The information provided on this website and throughout this blog is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical health, mental health, or legal advice. The content is designed to support, not replace, the relationship that exists between a patient/site visitor and his/her healthcare provider. If you believe you may need professional help, it is important to seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider. Do not disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. In case of a mental health crisis don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 and in case of a medical or mental health emergency, please 911, or reach out to your local emergency hotline immediately for assistance. Remember, immediate professional assistance is crucial in such situations and can provide the necessary support and guidance. Your use of this site indicates your agreement to be bound by our Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy.
Navigating the Complexities of Healthy Eating: A Perspective on Eating Disorders
January 31, 2024
Written by Sharilee Benjamin, LMSW, CTP, CNP
In the realm of nutrition and health, understanding and implementing healthy eating habits can be uniquely challenging for those with eating disorders. This blog aims to explore this complexity, emphasizing that 'healthy eating' is not a one-size-fits-all concept and requires a nuanced approach for individuals with eating disorders.
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What is an Eating Disorder?
Eating disorders are complex mental health conditions characterized by severe disturbances in eating behaviors and related thoughts and emotions. Common types, including Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia Nervosa, and Binge Eating Disorder, go beyond extreme dieting or fitness obsessions. They pose serious risks to physical and emotional health.
The Complexity of 'Healthy Eating' for Those with Eating Disorders
For individuals without eating disorders, healthy eating typically focuses on balanced nutrition and portion control. However, for those with eating disorders, these concepts can trigger or exacerbate unhealthy preoccupations with food and body image, necessitating a more personalized approach to nutrition.
Challenges in Conventional Healthy Eating Habits
Focus on Food and Weight: Traditional diet advice can be counterproductive for individuals with eating disorders, potentially reinforcing harmful fixations on weight and calorie control.
Dietary Restrictions: Recommending food restrictions can dangerously intensify food avoidance behaviors and fears associated with eating disorders.
Meal Schedules and Portion Sizes: Rigid meal plans and strict portion sizes can cause significant stress and anxiety during mealtimes for those battling eating disorders.
Adapting Healthy Eating for Eating Disorder Recovery
Individualized Approach: Customizing eating habits to fit individual recovery needs, often guided by healthcare professionals specializing in eating disorders, is essential for effective treatment.
Mindful Eating: Emphasizing mindful eating practices can help individuals with eating disorders focus on the experience of eating and their body's natural hunger and fullness cues, rather than on calorie counting.
Holistic Health Perspective: A comprehensive approach to recovery should prioritize overall well-being, including mental and emotional health, in addition to physical health.
Incorporating Insights on Trauma and Eating Disorders
The intersection of trauma, particularly complex PTSD, and eating disorders highlights the need for specialized treatment approaches like EMDR. This therapy addresses deeply ingrained negative beliefs and emotions stemming from traumatic experiences, facilitating more effective recovery for those with trauma-related eating disorders.
Programs and Services by NEDA and EDA
NEDA offers diverse resources, including screening tools, support groups, and educational materials for individuals affected by eating disorders. EDA's Twelve-Step program focuses on balance and recovery through community support and shared experiences.
Finding Help and Support
The recovery journey from an eating disorder is deeply personal and complex, involving professional support, support groups, educational resources, and a supportive personal network. Accessing appropriate care and support is critical for effective recovery.
Conclusion
Recognizing the unique needs of individuals with eating disorders is crucial when discussing healthy eating habits. An inclusive and compassionate approach, considering both psychological and emotional aspects, is essential. Integrating trauma-informed care is particularly important for those whose eating disorders are linked to traumatic experiences, ensuring a comprehensive treatment and recovery process.
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